Pre-teen behaviour & conflict
Pre-teen behaviour check (ages 9-13)
Pre-teens push away and need you at the same time. Thinking about the last month, how often has each of these been true?
Reflection items informed by parent-report indicators of adolescent behavioural and emotional difficulty. Not a diagnosis.
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1. Answering back, shouting or slamming doors during ordinary requests
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2. Withdrawing to their room, or shutting down instead of talking
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3. Conflict about screens, gaming or phone use most days
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4. Irritability or anger that seems out of proportion
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5. Breaking agreements, hiding things, or bending the truth
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6. Losing interest in activities or friendships they used to enjoy
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7. Falling behind or losing motivation at school
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8. You find yourself walking on eggshells to avoid a reaction
Answer every question to see your reflection.
If something here worries you
A low score does not mean your difficulty is not real, and a high score does not mean something is wrong with you. If you are in immediate danger, please contact a local mental health professional or a crisis helpline right away.
Next steps
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