Behaviour, anger & boundaries
Child behaviour check (ages 4-10)
Thinking about the last month, how often has each of these been true for your child? Answer for the child you actually live with, not the one you feel you should be describing.
Reflection items informed by common child behaviour and emotional-regulation indicators used in parent-report screening. Not a diagnosis.
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1. Tantrums or meltdowns that feel too big for the situation
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2. Hitting, kicking, throwing or slamming when upset
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3. Refusing instructions, arguing with almost every request
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4. The same daily fight repeating: homework, screens, bedtime or leaving the house
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5. Becoming very distressed when routines or plans change
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6. Difficulty accepting no, or waiting and taking turns
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7. Calm at school but unravelling as soon as they are home
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8. Struggling to name what they feel before they act on it
Answer every question to see your reflection.
If something here worries you
A low score does not mean your difficulty is not real, and a high score does not mean something is wrong with you. If you are in immediate danger, please contact a local mental health professional or a crisis helpline right away.
Next steps
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